It is hard to let go of things so much so, that in the U.S. we spend more than twenty billion dollars a year on self-storage units. Besides dealing with our own stuff, many of us are finding we are also having to deal with our parent’s and grandparent’s stuff as they pass on. So many of these objects contain stories: stories of our childhood, and stories of the history of our families. No wonder it is hard to let them go. In telling her own story of letting go of several households of furnishings, Lisa Tracy is enormously helpful to us as we grapple with the “stuff” of our lives. She understands the stories they contain. She says, “I think that it takes enormous emotional and mental energy to deal with our things. Why? Because we put ourselves, we put our lives, we put our stories, and in a sense we put our family into the objects.” (hosted by Justine Willis Toms)
Lisa Tracy is a journalist and the former Home & Design editor of The Philadelphia Inquirer. She now lives in Lexington, Virginia, where she teaches creative nonfiction.
She is the author of:
- Objects of Our Affection: Uncovering My Family’s Past, One Chair, Pistol, and Pickle Fork at a Time (Bantam 2010)
If you’d like to learn more about the work of Lisa Tracy go to www.objectsofouraffection.com.
Topics explored in this dialogue include:
- Why we are so attached to our things
- How the furnishings of our parents and grandparents are special icons for us
- How writing this book helped to let go of things allowing a space for others to steward them
- How small local museums can be helpful in researching family history
- Why is storytelling intrinsic for humans and particularly in the southern U.S.
- What is it like to do an auction of one’s family furnishings
- How simple objects from our childhood can help us begin the grieving process
Host: Justine Willis Toms Interview Date: 7/27/2010 Program Number: 3371